“The truth will set you free, but you have to be able to endure the labor pains of birthing it.” -Iyanla Vanzant (Me to my Intuition)Q: Can I trust that everything is happening for me?A: Yes. Knowing the work and doing the work are very different. It’s one thing to know, and another to do. It’s akin to “watching” someone…
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Can I Trust?
This Is The Season About Becoming.
On March 12, 2020, as Joe and I drove off of the beach together for the very last time, we received the email that would be the catalyst for a tough year ahead, to say the least. The email told us that our upcoming show, Forever Vintage Market in Belleville, IL, a show we had done since starting our mobile…
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We Are The Balm
Mutual friends introduced us. He didn’t know my story, and I didn’t know his. But after only a short time together, we were in deep conversation. I was talking about Joe and said something that made him question where he was. When I said that he’d died by suicide in June of 2020, I think he was taken aback for a…
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Acceptance.
January is the month for hunkering down and getting cozy. More time is spent inside (if you’re in the north), and it’s a great time to reflect on what the past year was or was not. A time to re-calibrate, freshen our perspective, and set new intentions. A time to plan for the year ahead. For the last several years, I’ve spent…
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Everything
Today is Christmas. Tomorrow, December 26, marks the eighteenth month of Joe’s passing. I love that it’s not today. Not Christmas. We get to have this day. Everything has changed, and yet everything remains the same. Since losing Joe, I haven’t altered or moved much of anything in the house. It’s kind of strange even to say because I’ve always…
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